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8 Podcasts by Black Women to Check Out This Month

8 Podcasts by Black Women to Check Out This Month

Market research company, eMarketer estimates the U.S. will reach 105.6 million active monthly podcast listeners by the end of 2020. This rate has more than doubled since 2015. Ad spending is projected to top more than $1 billion in 2021. With the growing demand, Black women are rapidly invading the industry. From science and business to entertainment and mental health, women of color are producing and consuming diverse podcasts. Here are 8 podcasts we’re listening to this month. These storytellers and content creators provide entertainment as well as valuable educational resources to ensure success for Black women at every level.

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The Art of a Virtual Date

The Art of a Virtual Date

So, you’ve slid into some DMs, matched with a cutie on a dating app, been pursued by a longtime admirer, or met someone on a quarantine snack run. Whatever the case, you’ve made a connection and now the two of you are ready for some one-on-one time. Turn on Zapp and get ready for some computer love. Who knew the ‘80s would prepare us for virtual dating?

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Divas Are Always Gonna Do It Up

Divas Are Always Gonna Do It Up

Getting together with real sista-friends is one of the best parts of life.The impact of those events can be really life-changing and affirming. Black girl magic is usually in full effect, and sharing and love are at the heart of the event. When you are the Host Diva, folks get used to you doing your thang on the entertainment front. While it’s a lot of pressure, it’s also a ton of fun and a great way for you to really let your diva flag fly.

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15 Ways to Decompress in 10 Minutes or Less

15 Ways to Decompress in 10 Minutes or Less

Is 2020 working your last nerve? We know, sis. Ours too. You’re booked and busy and need a quick outlet. Adjusting to the new normal is frustrating and stressful, but don’t throw in the towel just yet. Got 10 minutes to spare? Keep this list handy for when you’re feeling suffocated.Try these easy techniques to decompress and snap back for more peaceful state

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4 Black Girl Wine Connoisseurs You Should Know

4 Black Girl Wine Connoisseurs You Should Know

In the U.S., winemaking is a multi-billion-dollar industry and women of color deserve a cut. From winemakers and CEOs all the way to wine critics and everyday consumers,Black women are redefining an industry where they are noticeably underrepresented. These influential wine experts have created exclusive and well-respected outlets for other minority women to network and become educated in the economics of selling and importing wine. Although many brands have missed several opportunities for inclusion and diverse taste, Black women are ensuring community, lifestyle and building a legacy in wine culture. Here are 4 dope wine entrepreneurs who are killing the game and working to get more Black women a seat at the table.

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The Wine Down Playlist

The Wine Down Playlist

It’s impossible to predict how long we’ll be indoors. Your home is now your office, daycare, nail salon, restaurant, and more. You deserve a break from home.While every state has different COVID-19 protocols and guidelines in place, it may be tough for you to safely travel to a vacation spot. Bring on the staycation vibes. Get creative in rediscovering ways to relax at home. Fill up your glass with a strong beverage (or if you’re like me, reach for something virgin) and toast it up to some much-needed me time with the Wine Down playlist. These smooth, melodic songs will guide you into a zenful state despite the world around you. Staying at home for recreation is an adjustment. Unwind with these smooth R&B vibes.

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Home is Where the Heart Is: Why Black Women Need a Sanctuary

Home is Where the Heart Is: Why Black Women Need a Sanctuary

Safety and comfort are two elements of life we deserve. Quote simply, it is what puts our minds at ease and our hearts at rest. It can come from the warm cup of tea we drink or the soft blanket we snuggle under after a long day out in the world. As Black women, especially, we need and deserve the safety and comfort that comes from having our own sanctuaries. That begs the question: “Are Black women safe?” Do we truly have a place to rest and relax – a place where we can finally take off our capes (if only for a few hours) and just be at peace with ourselves.

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Beauties of the Month - Shaleea V.

Beauties of the Month - Shaleea V.

I was diagnosed with Ductal Carcinoma in Situ (DCIS) at the age of 41 after my second mammogram when the tech noticed a difference in my images from my first mammogram just one year earlier. After that, I had a follow-up 3D mammogram and a biopsy that confirmed that there were cancer cells present. I sought a second opinion at Dana Farber Cancer Institute and subsequently received treatment there. I had a lumpectomy to remove the cancer cells in December 2018 followed by 16 rounds of radiation in February of  2019. 

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Beauties of the Month - LaTasha P.

Beauties of the Month - LaTasha P.

I found a lump in my breast when I was 34-years-old, after completing my monthly self-exam. At that time, I had a 9-year-old & a 4-year-old son. Initially, I was told that I just had very dense breasts, but I knew something was wrong. I had been a teacher for 12 years and when school started in August, I was very drained and lethargic by the time I got home. Because of my age, my doctors did not want to send me to have testing beyond my initial mammogram because they thought I was too young. I was persistent and found a doctor that was willing to send me for an ultrasound, which led them to find two tumors and on October 6, 2011, I was diagnosed with Stage IV Invasive Breast Cancer. I was in a fight for my life; I had many rounds of chemo & surgery, but I didn’t give up! I am still here today healthy and happy living my life to the fullest! I make it a point to remind women to do their monthly exams and follow up if something does not feel right.

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